Answers from those who have ghosted me.

I dare you to see who knows me best.

April 15, 2009 at 8:14pm

1: Where you and I met? 
2: Take a stab at my middle name: 
3: How long have you known me? 
4: The last time we saw each other? 
5: Would I ever go skydiving? 
6: Your first impression of me upon meeting/seeing me? 
7: Am I funny? 
8: What's my favorite music? 
9: What do I want to do more than anything? 
10: What is the one thing you think I should do? 
11: Do I have any special talents? If so, what are they? 
12: Would you call me preppy, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam, nerdy, snobby, or something else(what)? 
13: Have you ever hugged me? 
14: My favorite food? 
15: If there was one good nickname for me, what would it be? 
16: Your favorite memory of me? 
17: If you and I were stranded on an island, what would I bring? 
18: Who's my best friend? 
19: What is your overall impression of me? 
20: Where do you think I will be in 25 years? 
21: Will you re-post this so I can fill this out for you?


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Melanie 

Old friend who "ghosted"me

1: Where you and I met?
We met 15 years ago in Mrs. McDonald's Kindergarten class
2: Take a stab at my middle name:
Beatrice- bringer of joy
3: How long have you known me?
15 years and still going strong!
4: The last time we saw each other?
24 hours ago
5: Would I ever go skydiving?
Yes “take me with you”
6: Your first impression of me upon meeting/seeing me? 
shy but friendly
7: Am I funny? 
Yes, more then anybody else I know!
8: What's my favorite music? 
Country, punk……almost every thing! 
9: What do I want to do more than anything? 
Well two things first, talk to your brother, second go to FCBD with me.
10: What is the one thing you think I should do? 
Enjoy life and ignore people meddling in your love life unless you are asking them for advice. 
11: Do I have any special talents? If so, what are they? 
You play clarinet, and drums, you are a writer, and enjoy life
12: Would you call me preppy, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam, nerdy, snobby, or something else(what)?
Hell I don’t think there is a name for what you are, preppy? No average? Hardly sporty? Not really you now is it? Punk? At times…hippie? If I find you wearing a tie-dye smiley face shirt, with hemp sandals and preaching “don’t eat meat!” I’ll kill you so hippy better not go there lol glam, nope nerdy? Hell no, snobby? If you were we would not have been friends.
13: Have you ever hugged me? 
Yes I would do it again!
14: My favorite food? 
You're joking right? Pizza pep, cheese, hamburger, Mac & cheese, mint chocolate chip ice cream with chocolate syrup =^.^= 
15: If there was one good nickname for me, what would it be? 
Smallville: why because you watch Smallville and you have the box sets and other things too :P
16: Your favorite memory of me? There are too many to pick from.
17: If you and I were stranded on an island, what would I bring? 
well there is no limit on the stuff you would bring, computer to write, books to read and music.
18: Who's my best friend? 
Me I hope! >.< 
19: What is your overall impression of me? 
That you’re a wonderful person that should get every thing you want in the world!
20: Where do you think I will be in 25 years? 
In a set career, married to josh with two kids *cheers*
21: Will you re-post this so I can fill this out for you? 
No because you already answered it :P

(I wrote more then I need too)


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Doriane

Old friend whom I haven't seen in over 3 years. 

1. Where you and I met? girl scouts!
2: Take a stab at my middle name: Beatrice
3: How long have you known me? almost six years
4: The last time we saw each other? girl scouts. lol
5: Would I ever go skydiving? good question. i don't know
6: Your first impression of me upon meeting/seeing me? you are very friendly
7: Am I funny? durrr
8: What's my favorite music? alternative rock
9: What do I want to do more than anything? marching band. lol. or twilight stuff that i wouldn't understand
10: What is the one thing you think I should do? umm... go to NYC with me
11: Do I have any special talents? If so, what are they? you can write poetry wayyy better than anyone i personally know
12: Would you call me preppy, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam, nerdy, snobby, or something else(what)? a mix of punk and preppy
13: Have you ever hugged me? when haven't we hugged?
14: My favorite food? eek, i dont know!
15: If there was one good nickname for me, what would it be? mousey!!!
16: Your favorite memory of me? hmm, either gossiping about band or camping
17: If you and I were stranded on an island, what would I bring? your mp3 player, cell phone and a deck of cards
18: Who's my best friend? tory and melanie and me?
19: What is your overall impression of me? you're totally awesome
20: Where do you think I will be in 25 years? a famous poet/math teacher
21: Will you re-post this so I can fill this out for you? yess


Erica

Old friend who picked a not-so-nice friend over me. 

1. We meet in junior high 7th grade
2. Beatrice
3. 7 years
4. yesterday
5. no i would never
6. u are a nice person
7. yes u are
8. country tecno
9. see your brother again
10.anything u want
11. u can write
12. u are average
13. yes i have
14. pizza anything
15. mousey
16. my favorite memory is always making me smile
17. your computer
18. me and melanie and tori and dori
19. good friend
20. married and have kids
21. no


Out of these 3 old friends, one is still friends with me on Facebook. 
I still struggle with the fact that it still seems like for whatever reason, 
my old friends don't think I am fun anymore. 
I know I can't easily blame them; but I think my depression started
when these 3 among others relatively stopped being my friend. 

Amanda Hansen

Amanda B Hansen is a writer & poet who currently resides in Omaha, NE. 
She is a recent graduate of the University of Nebraska at Omaha. She holds a Bachelor's in General Studies. Her certifications include English, Music, & Creative Writing. 

Amanda currently splits her time being a full-time Customer Service Adviser at her local Walgreen's, and being an Editor/Social Media/Writing Contributor for Fine Lines Journal in Omaha.