I always felt indifferent when hearing the phrase, "lose your virginity."
The only people who can say that were drunk or raped.
I may have been drunk, but I was not raped.
I know who my first was.
Here is my story.
We all have been here.
Maybe not here-here, but you know what I mean.
Yes, I can admit that to myself (and to the world) now.
Because I have found love, and I now understand why I made those choices and more importantly, why I needed to make those choices during what became a rather difficult point in my life.
I made mistakes.
I have learned from them, taken what they taught me.
I now have learned to love somebody the way they deserve to be loved.
I am most thankful for this tremendous experience.